How Far is Too Far?

TCU's Most Perfected Art Form : The Hook Up :: How Far is Too Far

The line is a dot to you. Sexual norms are a thing of the past and a disregard for caution has replaced the courtesy knock. Why not just join in?! The term "crossing the line" was once used to scold actions and enforce modesty. However, today that line has become something of hindsight, along with condoms and timid advances.

How far is too far? If you're asking that question you've gone too far. To not understand your own boundaries is to ensure a self fulfilling prophecy of cold sores and an itchy crotch. `

If I were to be diplomatic, I'd say it's all relative. But where's the fun in that?

For instance, Betty the Bicycle will spread her legs for Harrison's head nod, Bobby's boob grab, or Larry's lusty embrace. For Betty the concept of going "too far" is only a mirage, fabricated by parents and pastors to scare young girls away from experimentation.

On the other hand, Too Tight Tara flaunts her chastity ring proudly and slaps any boy who dares to think crude thoughts in her presence. Tara's concept of "too far" is also a mirage, blurred together with hand holding, boyfriends, and blind dates. Where one is blinded by overindulgence, the other is masked with innocence.

How did we develop this wide range of social norms? Was it our upbringing, our environment, or our genetic moral compass that has so many of us headed in different directions. It's hard to say who's trekking the right path. Betty could get knocked up, realize her worth as a woman and be changed for the better. Tara could become asexual and hate men for the rest of her life. There's no "right" set of guidelines to follow in regards to how you should deviate your sexual experiences. All you can follow is your gut feeling. Side note : when extremely wasted, that's not your gut urging you to go further, it's your sexual frustration lashing out.

So, how far is too far? To each their own, whether that be a peck or a moan. Just remember no glove no love, no means no, and wonder is mystery but regret is forever.